I am condemned for what was done to me, my schools goofing off all day and giving us things like busywork and not preparing for a college setting, at least not at some schools or competitive ones. I also wasn't a blonde and didn't act like a teenager at age 6.
People keep acting like I have a negative intelligence and am bad.
I wasn't treated with the respect I deserved, as a child. People want to find out and freak out if my parents are different but better in some way. My parents did care about me, in many ways.
So, yea, some children are loved more by company. I think it was about liking people who encourage you not to worry about people who seem to be nicer than them and still interesting as people.